The Ultimate Socialite

Becoming the ultimate socialite.

As the weather turns warmer and the days grow ever more golden, June marks the start of the Social Season in the United Kingdom. From Polo in the Park to Henley Royal Regatta, the who’s who emerge for a calendar filled with refined revelry.

As more venues and events of note are increasingly opening their gates to four-legged friends, our guide to canine etiquette can help you navigate the wonderful world of society.

So, before you and your canine companion become the toast of the summer season, here are our top tips for how to turn your dog into the perfect, polite plus one.

 

Understanding Dog-Friendly Society Events

While it’s tempting to RSVP ‘yes’ to every dog-friendly engagement, it’s important to make sure you and your pet’s manners are up to scratch. Basic commands like sit, stay, heel, come, and leave are a must when out in public. If your dog’s spirit leans more bohemian than aristocratic, then it might be worth booking a few sessions with a professional dog trainer.

Of course, for those attending with their impeccably mannered canine companions, attention to detail remains paramount. One discreet but essential preparation? Upon arrival, take a moment to locate the nearest dog waste bin. While such matters are rarely discussed over champagne and canapés, nothing says true sophistication like a well-prepared guest who ensures both style and cleanliness are maintained throughout the day.

 

Begin with Intimate Engagements

Big events can be loud, crowded, and a bit much for some pups. If your dog isn’t used to busy places, start with local dog meetups or small gatherings before heading to somewhere like Goodwoof, a pet show, or a major social event. Small events are also great for helping your dog work on their pet-etiquette before going to a larger society event.

 

Health Checklist 

Before you both step out, make sure your pet’s vaccinations are up to date. Also make sure they are well groomed – after all muddy paw prints are not the new black, especially when a fellow guest is wearing white. When out in crowds, a collar with identification tags is another must. For extra peace of mind when out, clip a GPS tracker on to a collar or harness such as this one from Tractive.com for added peace of mind.

Click here for our top wellness trends for dogs in 2025.

 

Good Manners Matter

One of the best ways to make sure your dog is always on their best behaviour is by keeping them on a lead unless your host gives the all-clear for off-lead adventures. Even the best-behaved dogs can get a bit excited in a crowd, with lots of unfamiliar sights and smells. A lead makes it easy for you to guide them to a quieter spot if things get a little too hectic.

Equally important in the realm of refined doggy diplomacy is the etiquette of introductions. While it’s natural for dogs to greet one another with a courteous sniff, such encounters should always be supervised and approached with discretion. Allow your dog to greet others only when both parties are calm and their owners give clear consent. A gentle introduction on a loose lead allows your pup to mingle gracefully without causing a scene—after all, even among the canine set, first impressions matter.

Not everyone is a dog lover and will be excited to see your dog. So be mindful of guests who might be nervous around our four-legged friends or may have allergies. Keep your pup close to you and don’t let them wander up to people uninvited. If they do accidentally brush against someone, a quick apology will go a long way and show your manners are just as impeccable as your pet’s.

 

Pack Like a Pro

When heading out with your social butterfly, don’t forget the essentials before leaving the house.

  • Lead and collar
  • Compostable poo bags (we love Earth Rated lavender-scented ones)
  • Collapsible water bowl (like this one from Go Outdoors)
  • A towel for emergency mud
  • Plenty of snacks—think our Terrier Truffles, or Biscuit Paws for snack diplomacy
  • And a few extra treats to share with new furry acquaintances

By being prepared beforehand, you’ll be able to swiftly avoid any social faux pas this summer season.

 

Finally…

Bringing your dog to events can be an absolute joy and a great way for you to both make memories you will treasure for years and take lots of Instagram worthy photos. With a little effort and lots of Ruffingtons treats, you and your canine companion will become the most refined and adored guest this summer season. So, here’s to a tail-wagging summer of sun, scones, and socialising as the two of you become the ultimate socialite.

 

For more hints and tips visit our blog page to find everything from how to enhance your emotional connection with your dog to how to throw them pawfect birthday party.

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